How do you cope with frustrations?
There are times in our lives that we encounter a heavy rain just like the heavy typhoon that the Philippines just had this week. It destroys so much of the lives of people affected. It wash away the hopes of those people who died and those who got homeless because of what happened.
Some time in our life there are instances when we just wake up one day and realize that everything that we have hoped for is no longer with us and has been washed away by the heavy rain that passes our life. Heavy rains are those problems that we meet along the way. And I know everyone of us have it. It just defer in situation but all of us have it every once in a while in our life.
There are instances that we get frustrated with out business because its not making us any money at all. There are instances that we get frustrated because we lost something very precious to us. Or there are times when we think that the whole world is over us because we don’t know anymore what to do with whatever problem we have at hand.
And with all this frustrations and problems that we encounter how do we really cope with it and how do we handle it? On my part whenever I have a problem I usually let my world stop and nothing matters to me but just the problem at hand. Everything stops. I can’t do my work, I can’t do anything because I just linger on the pain that I feel at the moment. And I know its not a good idea to do it. Because you already have a problem at hand and then you will add more by not doing anything. So the problem just gets worse and your life just gets wasted. I know it has been me in the past.
But today is a different day. I had the very big frustration in my heart but I want to use it as an inspiration to work harder on what I am planning with my business. I want this day to be a day that is special not that I am celebrating the pain that I feel but because I have learned a lot of lessons in the past and now I want to make use of it. I want to take this frustration as inspiration to work harder on my projects and to do better on everything that I do. Instead of just sitting in one corner of my bed and crying and hoping that the problem just disappears magically, I want to do differently this time. I just want to use my time productively by working harder and doing better in whatever I do. That way I won’t have any time wasted just because I have pain in my heart or frustrations in my life.
Its the same in business. We don’t stop doing something just because a project did not do well. Instead we should take it as in inspiration to do better next time. And at this very moment I swear that I will not do things the same way again. I will show the world that just because others say things cannot be done that I have to give up also on it. Just because my world now is crashing doesn’t mean that I have to give up living.
Pain and frustration is just normal in life. We just have to deal with it the best way and turn it into a positive effect in our life instead of thinking of the negative.

